Memento mori art has long been a part of human life. But what does this historic trend mean, and how can it help us in modern day? In this blog post, we explore how this concept can help us deal with not just our own mortality, but the sadness and despair of prolonged grief after the death of a family member or loved one.
In a world where we've created endless fantasies of immortality, from classic mythology to tales of vampirism, it's easy to become overwhelmed by the reality that we will all one day die.
While thinking about our deaths can feel strange and unsettling, there's a lot we can gain from reflecting on our mortality and the phrase memento mori is one way to bring this into mind.
From dealing with major loss, to how we spend time on this planet- confronting death's inevitability is what this concept is all about. Reminding us that death is what gives life meaning, it helps to change how we talk about death, get through the process of complicated grief and deal with terminal illness. All whilst reminding us to enjoy the earthly pleasures of the present day, and remember that hard emotions- just like life- are temporary too.
The literal translation of the Latin phrase memento mori is “remember you must die.” The expression is thought to have originated in ancient Rome, where slaves followed generals on victory marches and quietly said the words to keep their commander's mortality in mind. The sentiment was said in hopes of humbling their leaders and stopping them from becoming consumed by pride.
Memento mori is symbolised in art through depictions of death and time that show the fragility of life. These symbols often include:
flowers plucked from the stem
Memento mori encourages us to actively stop and think about death. While it might seem morbid, setting aside a moment to contemplate death can positively shape our lives.
The philosophy behind memento mori reminds us how important it is to appreciate what we have right now, and to not spend time fretting about the many factors and situations in life which don't matter. It can help give us a new perspective and encourage us to seize opportunities. Whilst it can feel overwhelming, the more we comfortably reflect on death, the more we can live life to the fullest.
By taking time to think about death every day, you might:
push yourself to take risks
place more value in your time and energy
recognise how much life and death are connected
open yourself up to difficult conversations
plan for the unexpected
appreciate the love and wonder in your life
find humour in the little obstacles along the way
enjoy the mystery life has to offer
Many faiths and cultures have connected the sentiment of memento mori and similar spiritual beliefs, to their own teachings about the afterlife. The practice has informed moral guides, spiritual traditions, and even the Old Testament- spanning across ancient Greece and Rome to early Christianity and Buddhism.
The reflective phrase has continued to influence philosophy, art and literature over the centuries outside of religious traditions. A bereaved person of these faiths is often comforted after significant loss with the spiritual beliefs around it- helping them to navigate intense grieving emotions, and suppress the anxiety of the 'unknown' around death.
In reminding us that we are unable to avoid death and live forever- memento mori is a reminder of our own mortality and the impermanence of life. Mindful, meditative practice follows a similar core belief. With the emphasis on intense focus on the present moment and feelings, this practice encourages us to seek presence in the present moment and let go of our fears and future worries.
Both practices share this process of recentering on the present moment of life, taking care to live to the fullest.
By embracing Memento Mori and mindfulness, we can cultivate a deeper appreciation for the preciousness of life and make the most of every moment. Whether that's through seeking meaning in the transitory nature of our existence, or helping reduce stress and anxiety in the grieving process- memento mori can inspire a meditative practise which refocuses us on the life emphasis of death, rather than the anger, fear or emptiness of death itself.
For some, thinking about death can bring a sense of peace and meaning to life. Reminding us there is no right or wrong way to live, bus instead just a way which feels meaningful and purposeful to you.
For others, death's inevitability can help support us through grief, sadness and intense feelings after losing a loved one. In many cultures across the world, there is a sense that death is a continuation of life onto something else- and so memento mori reminds some to find a sense of meaning, and peace after the death of a loved one.
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